The Best of 30 Years: 30 Lessons to Make Your Life Extraordinary

Hey there Cyborg friend!

In this edition of our newsletter, I'll give you a sneak peek into the advice I wish I could've shared with my younger self.

In the next few months, we're going to explore these topics together.

And for the sake of brevity, I'll be splitting the insights into two editions. If you missed the first edition, check it out here.

Each week, we will deep dive into one of these eye-opening revelations and other fascinating topics.

So, buckle up for an exciting adventure as we walk this path together, sharing the wisdom I've gained along the way!

16. Attention is Irrelevant on Social Media; Leverage is Key

Social media has been a game-changer in my life, allowing me to find my community and express myself freely.

It's easy to get caught up in chasing followers and likes, but I've realized that true success lies in cultivating leverage and nurturing genuine connections.

By focusing on building an engaged audience that resonates with my ideas, I've created a valuable network that supports, challenges, and inspires me.

Remember, it's not about the number of followers, but the quality of relationships we form.

Embrace the freedom social media offers, and always prioritize authentic connections over fleeting attention.

This approach leads to a more meaningful, impactful, and fulfilling social media experience.

Future Lesson: The Leverage Equation: Maximizing Impact in the Future of Work

17. Embrace life: blend passions, dillydally, and savor simple pleasures

Embrace the magic of living your dream life by intentionally incorporating your favorite things into your daily routine, while also allowing yourself to indulge in the art of dillydallying and living slow.

Skateboard to the gym to blend fitness and fun, savor your favorite beverage in elegant glassware, and sprinkle a touch of whimsy throughout your environment.

Give yourself permission to slow down, to relish in the simple joys and moments that make life truly meaningful.

When you prioritize and automate these simple pleasures into your daily habits, you're not just enhancing each day, but also building the foundation for a contented and fulfilling life.

By intertwining your passions and interests with your routines, and taking the time to savor life at a leisurely pace, you'll find that happiness becomes an inherent part of your everyday experience.

So, go ahead and seize the power of living a life tailored to your unique desires and pleasures, while also embracing the beauty of slow living.

Future Lesson: Everyday Euphoria: Unlocking the Secrets of a Blissful Daily Routine

18. Trust Your Gut When it Says Something's Wrong

Trusting your instincts can be empowering, but always pay close attention to negative gut feelings.

Excitement can make us overlook potential issues, so it's vital to pause and evaluate the situation.

Conversely, negative instincts may signal subtle red flags.

Heed these warnings and make more informed decisions, navigating life's challenges with empathy, compassion, and critical thinking.

Future Lesson: Trusting the Wisdom Within: The Power of Negative Gut Instincts

19. Stay on the Right Side of Asymmetric Risk

Embracing asymmetric opportunities can be a real game-changer in many aspects of life.

It's all about focusing on endeavors with small risks but significant potential rewards.

Good Asymmetric Risk

• asking someone on a first date

• investing in a startup

• launching a company, podcast, book, or video

• attending a social event

• buying Bitcoin during a bear market

Bad Asymmetric Risk

• gambling

• high interest debt

• over-leveraged trading

• failing to diversify

• buying things at their all-time high

These opportunities allow you to experience substantial benefits while keeping your exposure to loss minimal.

At the same time, it's essential to steer clear of situations that carry high risks with limited rewards, as they often lead to unfavorable outcomes.

By actively seeking out asymmetric opportunities, you'll foster a mindset that encourages growth, innovation, and calculated risk-taking.

Future Lesson: Calculated Risks, Boundless Rewards: The Power of Asymmetric Opportunities

20. Learning Spiral Dynamics is Crucial for Empathy and Amazing Relationships

It's easy to assume that people with differing opinions are "crazy," but in reality, no one is truly crazy; we all simply possess unique perspectives shaped by our values and experiences.

Recognizing this diversity helps us cultivate empathy and fosters more meaningful connections with others.

Spiral Dynamics, a model that delves into the development of human consciousness and values, equips us with the tools to appreciate and embrace these varying perspectives.

By understanding and acknowledging these differences, we can minimize conflict and foster more harmonious relationships.

By utilizing Spiral Dynamics, we can also identify potential partners who possess the conscious evolution necessary for growth and mutual support, ultimately enriching our lives and forging more fulfilling connections.

Future Lesson: The Relationship Revolution: Nurturing Empathy and Connection through Spiral Dynamics

21. Prioritize equanimity and time over money

I've discovered that the secret to truly enjoying life is focusing on maximizing time and equanimity rather than just money and happiness.

While accumulating wealth can be rewarding, it's important to remember that time is a precious resource we can't get back.

By prioritizing time, you're considering opportunity costs and making sure you can fully savor the fruits of your labor.

Future Lesson: Solving for Wealth: Mastering the Art of Balancing Life and Money

22. Crypto is undoubtedly the future, and with the right mindset and resources, it's not as daunting as it may seem

Diving into the world of tech and crypto can be an exciting journey, especially when you realize that much of the terminology is just fancy jargon.

Instead of getting lost in the noise, focus on the essential fundamentals that truly matter.

The core concepts are often much simpler than they first seem, and with the right guidance, you can easily grasp them.

By separating the valuable information from the buzzwords, you'll be able to make informed decisions, confidently navigate the crypto landscape, and passionately embrace this incredible financial revolution.

Future Lesson: Decrypting Crypto: Cutting Through the Jargon to Invest with Clarity

23. Get a color analysis and style evaluation done as early in life as possible to save money, time, and effort

Getting a color analysis and style evaluation is a game-changer that everyone should experience as early as possible.

By embracing the right colors and styles, you can enhance your natural beauty, boost your confidence, and save precious editing time.

Plus, sticking to a single color palette for each color season ensures that all your outfits will complement each other.

24. Psychedelics rewire your brain in the best way

Embracing the transformative power of psychedelics for introspective self-work has been nothing short of life-changing for me.

Despite the risks and legality issues, these extraordinary experiences have the potential to open up new dimensions of understanding and self-awareness.

It's difficult to fully express their impact, but I can attest that even microdosing LSD has been a beacon of hope, significantly decreasing my likelihood of becoming a 22-a-day statistic.

I wholeheartedly believe that exploring these experiences can inspire and enlighten others on their own journey towards self-discovery and personal growth.

Future Lesson: Beyond the Veil: Embracing the Transformative Potential of Psychedelics

25. The Environment You Choose Shapes Your Destiny

In my experience, creating and maintaining a positive environment has been crucial to achieving personal growth and success.

Whether it's a physical or virtual space, I believe that it's important to curate an environment that fosters positive habits and attitudes, inspires creativity, and reflects your goals and values.

This is why I've chosen to live as a digital nomad, seeking out environments that align with my values and enable me to thrive both personally and professionally.

By being intentional about the environments I surround myself with, I've been able to cultivate a sense of purpose and clarity in my life, and I would encourage others to do the same.

Additionally, by consciously choosing where you live, you can find a place that aligns with your values and fulfillment.

You no longer have to feel trapped living where you grew up - you can try to find somewhere else that has the things you need for success.

Emphasizing flexibility and prioritizing joyful elements in life, I chose to live near Stanley Park for regular skateboarding and a mere 100 yards from the gym to minimize workout barriers.

By focusing on such motivating environments that align with our values, we foster personal growth and enhance overall well-being and contentment.

Future Lesson: Designing Your Life: How to Curate an Environment that Reflects Your Goals and Values

26. Embracing solitude and introspection offers the ultimate freedom

To build a strong relationship with yourself and overcome codependency, it's essential to enjoy solitude and discover what you truly want in life.

Pursue your ambitions with determination, gain clarity on your goals, and nurture a deep bond with yourself.

Embracing this journey of self-discovery will lead to personal growth, self-awareness, and more fulfilling relationships based on mutual respect.

Don't be afraid of spending time alone. Instead, use it to create a life that reflects your values and aspirations.

Future Lesson: Figuring Out What You Want: The Quiet Power of Self-Reflection and Solitude

27. High Quality Third Places Are the Best Way to Network IRL as an Introvert

As an introvert, connecting with high-quality friends while preserving energy can be daunting.

A powerful strategy is joining a third place, like Equinox, where successful people gather, enabling you to form bonds with minimal socializing effort.

Frequenting a third place allows for gradual familiarity with others, where even sporadic conversations can spark transformative connections.

Despite membership fees, the invaluable benefits of a high-quality third place are undeniable.

At Equinox, I stay fit, encounter accomplished individuals, and choose my preferred level of interaction.

Future Lesson: The Art of Leverage: An Introvert's Guide to Building Genuine Connections in Third Places

28. The Government Doesn’t Care About Our Best Interest

We cannot always trust or have faith in the systems and institutions that govern our lives.

The recent treatment of the CEO of TikTok by senators and congresspeople serves as a reminder that our leaders are out of touch with our needs and interests.

However, it's important to remember that change can come from within.

We can make a difference by educating ourselves and taking action to create the world we want to see.

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Sometimes, it may require stepping away from traditional structures and forging our own paths.

Ultimately, the key lesson here is to not be complacent in the face of injustice or lack of progress.

Future Lesson: The Dark Side of "Protecting" Citizens: How the Government is Failing Us

29. The Creator Economy is the AI-Proof Future of Work

The traditional work structure has left many feeling unsatisfied and limited.

The creator economy offers a liberating alternative, empowering individuals to monetize their passions, control their schedules, and work from anywhere.

Access to technology levels the playing field, fostering collaboration and community among creators.

This cultural shift paves the way for a more fulfilling and meaningful way of life. Embrace the exciting potential of the creator economy and redefine your work-life balance.

Future Lesson: The Creator Economy: A Pathway to Job Security in the Age of AI

30. The World's Financial Systems are On the Brink of Collapse, Be Your Own Bank (BYOB)

As the world's financial institutions teeter on the brink of collapse, we're presented with a golden opportunity to revolutionize our system using cutting-edge technology.

Blockchain brings mathematically provable fairness, standing in stark contrast to the flawed US dollar system that perpetuates inequality.

Traditional banking is vulnerable to systemic risk, but collateralized crypto loans promise stability and security.

Now is the time to embrace this exciting chance to create a new financial era, fueled by passion and a shared vision for a more inclusive and just future.

Future Lesson: Bitcoin vs the US Dollar: Which Offers a Better Financial System?

As we conclude this week's newsletter, I'm thrilled to share that our next edition will feature a special article on cryptocurrency: "Crypto for Complete Beginners."

Be sure to subscribe, so you don't miss this enlightening piece.

We'll simplify the topic to its core, ensuring it's easily digestible even for non-tech-savvy individuals.

After all, I shared it with my grandmother, and now she’s hitting me up to buy Bitcoin!

You won't want to miss this opportunity to learn about the fascinating world of crypto in a way that's both approachable and engaging.

Until then, take care and stay curious!

Addie LaMarr